See now, I worked for Child Protective Services for ten years
and it would have been so GREAT to have known back then
that there really IS A CURE FOR PEDOPHILIA! That's right
ladies and gentlemen, alcohol rehab! Isn't that wonderful!
Or in the words of TomKat, AMAZING!!! and WONDERFUL!!
I thought so too! Now we can place thousands of children
back with their perpetrating parents and other assorted care-
takers. Wow. How cool is that. Thank you so much Congress-
man Foley for helping us all out with this one. Whew! We
really ought to award some sort of Nobel prize to the man.
At the very least for genius in obfuscation.
Guess what? If you're molested as a child, it is NO excuse to
molest someone else's child nor your own children. It does
not and should not offer you a get-out-of-jail-free card or even
one iota of sympathy for your actions as an adult.
Let's all save our sympathy for the victims of abuse who live
with the aftermath daily but lead caring lives towards others.
I learned two things when I worked as an investigator for
CPS.
1) Victims are so guilt-ridden they frequently feel like per-
petrators even when they are not. True victims seem to
have a sense of guilt about everything. On the other hand,
perpetrators are con artists who will UNCEASINGLY try to
make you feel like they are victims.
We just saw this in spades with Foley. What's his main focus
on, his guilt over damaging white house pages emotionally?
Oh NOOOOOOO! Absolutely not. Just like a true perpe-
trator his focus is on trying to get his "victimhood" out to
us. My alcohol abuse made me do it, I was victimized as a
child.
Well buddy, I've got news for you, there are a lot of drunk
former victims of abuse out there who aren't out there
hunting our children on the Internet. Wanna think about
that one for a minute on your way to your jail cell? I
learned something else too during my tenure with CPS.
2) Rehab of any type, alcohol, psychotherapy or otherwise
does not cure pedophiles. There is one very good therapy
for them though. Shotgun therapy. Best treated early.
Before too much damage is done. To others I mean.
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Oh yes and HASTER? You deserve to go down right along
with him. You are no better than the Catholic diocese who
transferred priests from parish to parish.
SYD-SHAME ON YOU ALL! And THAT my friends, is a
LOT of shame. I learned it from the best.
About Me
- Sydney
- WARNING - My blog frequently contains cursing and sexual content. I write compulsively. If that doesn't bother you, please read on. I love diamonds & flowers, computers and tech gadgets. Oh yes, and Lewis Black. Really. I would marry Lewis Black. I have an 18 year old son. He's brilliant. And funny. I myself am a single mother and a workaholic, so no telling where he picked up either of those two attributes. I sell dead chickens for a living even though my educational background is in psychology and I had initially wanted to be a forensic psychologist. So I guess, you could call me what one of my friends does, a chicken pimp. I may be sexy, (note that I said I may be, not that I am) but a lot of times, I think like a guy. The bitch of it is: I get my feelings hurt like a girl. Yes, I know. I'm not normal. Let's move on for God's sake.
4 comments:
The other thing about his going into rehab, is it makes it hard for any investigator to question you. His lawer is finding everything he can so Foley can prepare is answers.
I find it really telling that Matt Drudge cllaimed that the pages egged him on. Now how would he know that? His knee jerk reaction is to blame the victims.
this foley character has 2 agendas. his own pleasure and his own survival.
as long as he can be an effective fundraiser he'll probably retain both of them.
He thinks that by saying he was a victim everyone is going to feel sorry for him. Just because you were victimized as a child, it doesn't give you the right to turn around and inflict that same thing on others. You can stop it. My Dad was abused as a child, not sexually but physically. We've all heard how tough it is to stop that cycle. Most abusers grow up to abuse. Well he didn't. I'm not saying it wasn't easy for him, but he never beat us. So it can be done. And should be done.
Hey! There you are... Kind of lost contact for a while.
Missed you!
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